Coaching

Design a life you’re crazy about.

Life is what we make it.

It can be relaxing,

It can be adventurous,

It can be stressful,

It takes a little bit of effort, but our life can be whatever we decide to make it.

Step One

Figure out exactly what kinds of things make you happy.

Maybe it is music.

Maybe it is travel.

Maybe it is animals.

Maybe it is the beach.

Again, this list could be endless.

Step Two

Figure out the specific things in life that cause you anger, anxiety, or depression and work to limit these factors in your life as much as is possible. We will never be able to avoid everything in life which causes us stress, but we can actively reduce these stressors.

Maybe there are specific people in our lives which cause us to feel angry or unloved. We can work to limit the amount of time we allow them into our lives or remove them all together.

Maybe it is our job that requires changing.

If bills freak you out, maybe you schedule one or two days a month specifically for opening mail and paying debt followed by something relaxing.

Step Three

Schedule things which bring you joy, peace, or excitement  into your weekly calendar or to-do list just like any other chore or activity. Consider these activities promises to yourself and honor them as you honor promises you make to others.

It can be really helpful to space these activities throughout your week either as little rewards or as ongoing stress reducers. For example, a tentative schedule could look like this:

 Sunday  Monday Tuesday  Wednesday  Thursday  Friday  Saturday
Hike Pay Bills Sauna Read a Book Yoga Dinner out Beach
Play Golf  Gym  Manicure  Bubble Bath  Tai Chi  Live Music  Road Trip
 Try Meetup.com  Pay Bills Try new recipe Draw or Paint  Get Massage  Plan Vacation  Bike Ride
 See Movie Create New Playlist  Volunteer  Drinks out Take a class  Laundry Live Play

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